Are the people who live in Dull, Scotland, actually dull and dense .... or those who live in Boring, Oregon, really boring or tedious? Undoubtedly no, they are not .... but, most certainly eyebrows are raised when occupants of those municipalities explain where they reside.
In Ernest Hemingway's novel
"Islands in the Stream"
Published posthumously in 1970
"Happiness is often presented as being very dull but, he
thought, lying awake, that is because dull people are sometimes very happy and
intelligent people can and do go around making themselves and everyone else
miserable."
"I would rather have a good Marine, even a ruined Marine, than
anything in the world when there are chips down."
What did you mean by that?
It is not unusual for me to "complain" that communication
between individuals is the most difficult task in the world. This is especially
true of "written conversation" and, to a lesser degree, to talk on the
telephone.
The elements which make communication most difficult come when
the individuals are not speaking face-to-face, which prevents hearing the tone
of voice and seeing facial expressions. Also, any number of words have any
number of meanings, and when the talk is between two people who are pretty much
strangers to each other, there often is a misunderstanding over which meaning
the speaker has on his mind when he uses a certain word.
Add to that conversation between two individuals who do not have a common language. For instance, I once wrote to a non-English speaking young lady
that I thought she was "a silly girl." She interpreted "silly" in the dictionary sense of the word
as being a "foolish" girl. I had meant it in the sense of her being "funny."
In the instance of Thomas Hudson in the Ernest Hemingway quote,
I am reasonably certain his use of the word "dull" was not in reference to a village by that name in Scotland and not to the people who reside there .... but, then again, who can be absolutely certain? I assume there are at least a few "happy" people in the community of Dull who are not actually "dull" .... but, an assumption is only an assumption ....
For strangers and for individuals who do not have a common
language, it is easy to misinterpret meanings of words, especially those with a
variety of meanings or nuances, which is why I think communication, arguably, is
the most difficult task in the world.




