Saturday, July 25, 2020

Who is that masked man?

I have been throwing this post together rather hurriedly and grabbed one of the first "coronavirus mask" photographs I found on the internet. It was posted by the Denverite -- "a member-supported news organization for the curious and concerned in our ever-changing city" (Denver). If you look closely, I believe it is the same individual who is "modeling" all of the masks. Anyway, for a musical offering this time around are, "Love Hurts," sung by Gram Parsons and Emmylou Harris, and sort of another "love song," ГРАЙ -- В объятиях Мары, which translates into a band named Gray performing a song named, "In the Arms of Mary" .... or Mara, as you prefer ....

The time of the mask

I was born a bit of a maverick by nature which, in some ways, made me a good Marine and, in other ways, a not so good Marine. I once told a Navy lieutenant commander to go ?!?! himself. It cost me a night in the brig at the Naval Amphibious Base in Coronado, California, but also made me one among the sort of band of "folk heroes" in my outfit. Someday, I might write about what led to this encounter, but for now I will only briefly mention what turned out to be both a fun and an interesting interlude.

This all began during an afternoon and I was in the brig by around 1900. I promptly fell asleep and awakened about 0200 to see my cell door open and a pair of feet propped up against it. The feet belonged to another member of my company, who had been assigned the task of keeping an eye on me throughout the night. I woke him up and we talked for a while. He was sleepy, where I was fresh from a six- or seven-hour "nap." He went to sleep in my cell, and I set out to explore the brig.

I found no one awake and a few "guards" and prisoners soundly sleeping. I found food and ate. I snooped in the desks in the main office, including a drawer which contained about a dozen wallets. I watched television a while and "read" a couple of Playboy magazines. At 0500, I awakened my buddy, who still was asleep in my cell, and the No. 1 man in charge of the brig. I told the "brig master" I was departing with my buddy and my wallet. He mumbled something unintelligible, and the two of us left to return to our outfit. I never heard an "official" word about the incident, but, had it been a Marine Corps officer I became mouthy with, I probably would have been strung up by my thumbs.

This has been a prelude to noting that last week I put on a mask for the first time during this coronavirus business. The occasion was the first of two visits to a clinic, that visit for lab work. Two days later, I returned for my "annual wellness examination." Actually, it had been about a year and one-half since I last called on my doctor and before she became insistent that I make a personal appearance. I am glad to report that apparently I am alive and all is well. I could have told her that without undergoing an examination, and saved us both some time and me some money.

Well, my maskless days are ending. Today is the first day when all Minnesotans are being ordered to wear masks while in any public access buildings or outdoor areas where "social distancing" is not feasible. I have neither a good nor a logical reason to explain why I have chosen not to wear a mask before now. I tend to think it comes from the "maverick" element within me, and probably defines me as dumb and stubborn in some ways, to say the least. I am sure there is at least one Navy lieutenant commander who would agree with that assessment.

I will point out that 31 of the 50 states now have some variation of "masks required rules." It will be most fascinating to see how the world is doing a year from now .... will it not?


14 comments:

Kelly said...

As quickly as the "mask mandate" in Arkansas was issued, various law enforcement groups were announcing they would not be enforcing it. (a CYI effort?) As my daughter in the DA's office likes to remind me, a mandate isn't actually a law and unless a store owner calls the cops to report someone trying to enter their business (marked mask-only) and a ticket is written (misdemeanor)... they can't really enforce it. Yet my son in Minneapolis says police ARE writing tickets there for non-compliance.

*sigh*

At this stage in my life, I'm pretty much a rule-follower. I haven't always been (there were wild and crazy years during my late teens and early 20s), but those days are past and I can't really see what the big deal is in something so simple as putting a covering over my face when entering stores, clinics, etc.

Yes, it will definitely be interesting to see where this all goes.

Anita said...

Hah hah The time of the mask! I bet you would not have put on the mask if it was not mandatory. I do not think there is anything wrong with the mask, but here in the country Norway, no one uses it. Probably because we have no infection to mention maybe two or three pieces..We have therefore been told by the National Institute of Health not to use them but rather wash hands and keep a distance. Who is right no one knows. America is much bigger than Norway, more people more infection. Funny to read about your episode when you were in the cell. What made you get angry Mr?Is your first name Mike btw? It's fun and reminiscing especially also sharing the fun with the people that also were present. Yes what to say about the future. The promised land has become the land of thurst and hunger.But Yes it will go bra!
I liked your music today.I myself have listened a bit to Emmalou Harris.Think she is nice on some songs.The latest Russian rock folk song is also good but I did not understand what she sang about..Do you know? Ok I'm glad your doctor visit went well and everything or okey.I also have it fint and begins work next Monday.
Great picture! Hah hah I did not like any of the masks then! Hug Anita

Fram Actual said...

For someone who once practiced journalism, I pay little to no attention to it these days. My understanding is that in Minnesota, violation of the governor's "executive order" is a petty misdemeanor and other than a possible $100 fine, is pretty much meaningless. I also have heard some police are enforcing mask mandates in some cities which already have it, but largely in the sense of when they have stopped an individual who is suspected of another crime. And, some officers apparently are giving out masks, rather than tickets.

In the upper echelons of the political parties, it is a political issue here and elsewhere .... which speaks volumes about the idiocy level among those in the upper echelons.

The warden of the prison in which I worked, who later became the state Secretary of Corrections, once said the only difference between staff and inmates was that staff members were able to go home at night. I have a tendency to think there is a lot of truth in that statement, although I have heard it is a common comment at other types of institutions, as well. For me, issues like that sort of fall under the category of, "There, but for the grace of God, go I." Sorry .... as an agnostic in both religious and legal matters, I usually try to weave my way down the center of the road.

Rightly or wrongly, I also am assuming Christianity is how you found your way out of the "wild and crazy years during my late teens and early 20s." I need to be reading more and thinking more about life, liberty and religion ....

So, Kelly of Arkansas, thank you, for coming and for writing a comment for me. Take care, stay safe, be happy and I would wager you are a sweetie .... later ....

Fram Actual said...

I think you are right, Anita. I probably would not wear a mask if it were not mandatory. While, as I said, I have no good or logical reason for not wearing one, I chose not to and probably would continue along that path if it were not for the mandate. Logic says it might help to wear one and it certainly does not cause any harm, from my point of view .... simply another inconvenience.

Yes, the brig experience was both fun and funny -- and, very educational. I even believed that while it was happening, and never gave a moment of it a second thought. I never had seen the interior of a brig (or a jail), and my curiosity set my feet to wandering and my hands and eyes to snooping.

The episode began with completion a three-week scuba course and an afternoon beach party. The rest of this piece of the tale is lengthy, so suffice to say this led to that and so on, and eventually to the appearance of the shore patrol and the officer-of-the-day, who happened to be the lieutenant commander in question.

No, my name is not Mike ....

Gram Parsons was with a few bands, most notably the Byrds, while Emmylou Harris was mostly on her own and, at times, teaming up with a few others for a song or two. I am not a particular fan of either, but I enjoy their music.

I did not do any research about this Russian folk song, but understand it has religious connotations, which I failed to see in the video. If a person literally believes in forest deities, I suppose the woman could be one. Otherwise, it seems to me the man is pursuing a delusion or a dream -- a woman only he can see, which seems most likely. I thought of the Greek Sirens while I watched it, luring men to their deaths. The music is beautiful, I think, and the band is excellent.

Thank you, Norwegian girl, for coming and for writing a comment. Stay safe and sweet .... later ....

Simply Me said...

Hi Fram :)
I enjoyed your post very much today. The mask drives me crazy. Here in California, we have to wear them all the time. At one time they said no mask, then they say mask, and people are quite militant and crazy here about it all. Hopefully, they are working and we will all be better soon. I heard there is a book out called "Pandemic." It talks about the many plagues, viruses, asundry bugs through the ages and how they changed society. I'm not sure that's the title but I thought it may shed some light on our behaviors and emotions going through this time. One thing for sure, it is difficult. I so want it all to go away...
Today I went out to Malibu and the ocean was the bluest I've seen in ages. It was magnificent! The clear blue skies and ocean and green, green mountains is one positive for this time. You know how I am, Pollyanna, always seeking some positive light to shed on the darkness of the times. Today I thought to myself, hmmm, it may be tough to leave California. I suppose I am conflicted in that regard. In time I hope my path becomes clear.
I can see you in the brig with your mischief. You are quite the rebel and your tales of adventure bring a smile to my face :)
I especially enjoyed the last song with the beautiful women in the band. For a moment I thought it was you with the shield and sword in snow :) I am teasing again :)
I will look for more songs from this band. Both the music and the video were beautiful!
Wishing you a happy day :)
Big Hug Fram :)

Fram Actual said...

Put simply, I do not like wearing a mask. I am uncomfortable wearing one, both physically and emotionally. I will do it in stores and restaurants and wherever required, but it will be off the moment I exit. I do have a bit of a hearing deficit, and masks have a tendency to muffle the voices of those speaking through them, which is another strike against them for me. But, me and thee shall endure ....

There is a fascinating article, "The Virus Hunters," in the current issue of Smithsonian which gives a "tidy" and a thorough historical overview of pandemics then and now. A quote: "Even before the Covid-19 pandemic, scientists were searching for potential human pathogens in wild animals. They've found thousands." I will look for your book, Kelly ....

In terms of Nature, I am sure it will be next to impossible to leave California -- with its forests and mountains and waters and deserts. I felt that way when I left Michigan and Lake Superior, but I left expecting to be back eventually. Now, the years slip away and I am no closer to a return than I am to winning a multi-million lottery. Well, at least there are some wonderful memories of my time there ....

Mischief is a good word. There are times I think it could be used to describe my entire time in the Marine Corps. It was not just me, either. There were (probably still are) plenty of guys as bad as or worse than me present and accounted for, ma'am. (Using the word "bad" in a loosely undefined manner, you understand.) By the way, did you notice the rebel flag behind Gram and Emmylou? It was not there by accident or coincidence. There were a few versions of them singing, "Love Hurts." You now know why I picked the one I did ....

As for the Russian folk song, remember the Swedes (Vikings) ruled Russia for a few centuries and the name Russia comes from an old Nordic word, "Rus," meaning "men who row," as the Russian Vikings were known. Nope, not me in the video, though I suppose it could be a long-lost, super distant cousin .... hmmmm .... yes, I think we both like to tease ....

You are right about the song and the video. There are many bands scattered around the world who perform wonderfully and who produce exceptional videos.

So, I will bid you adieu and fare thee well, Surfer Girl. Be cool, be calm, be collected and, mostly, stay safe and healthy .... wealthy can come later ....

Kelly said...

I was born into a church-going family, so I never actually had one of those "road to Damascus" experiences of finding God. There was only one season of my life that I truly questioned His existence and that was in my pre-teen/early teen years. As for cleaning up my act.... that can be attributed to marriage and raising a family. While I've pretty much believed in God my entire life (with some heavy-duty rationalization going on during my "wild" years), I didn't form a personal relationship with Him until my early 40s. Game changer.

One of the reasons I don't mind wearing a mask is because I've developed some health problems in recent years and don't particularly want to get this virus. Then again, wearing a mask doesn't do much to protect me. That's where the hand-washing and not touching my face come in. Honestly, we should all be doing that anyway to prevent seasonal flu and colds. Common sense.

Fram Actual said...

I had my religious "unawakening" at about the same age. I was raised Lutheran with church services and Sunday school a regular and routine part of my life. We also had what was called "parochial school" two or three times a week (varied by age groups) in which we were let of public school for 30 or so minutes of religious school at the church. By the time of the "unawakening," I was in the midst of a two-year confirmation program.

Between a couple of negative experiences and not liking the local pastor (town of 700 with four churches in town and three others just outside of town), I approached my mother and told her I wanted to stop going to church. To cut to the chase, we made a deal in which she would go along with me if I agreed to complete the confirmation process. I think she really thought I would forget by the time I was confirmed. I did not forget and have not been inside a church since I was 14 except for weddings, funerals and as a tourist.

There are many elements about church and religion I miss and which form good memories from my boyhood. Every year around Christmas and Easter I think about attending a service .... but, so far, no go.

I can be found on the "Doubting Thomas" side of the ledger, I think. Faith and trust are difficult for me to give because of my own self-doubt. Essentially, I feel I am two people in conflict with one another, sort of a character in the old, classic good vs. evil story, and never can be sure which side is the stronger and who I want to be when I grow up. The clock will run down some day, probably with a decision never having been made.

My former wife No. 2 has medical issues and has been in self-imposed quarantine since early March. Very wise of her, I think. I agree with everything you wrote about precautions being common sense. I like to tempt and to taunt fate at times. It usually has worked out for me, but I really would not be surprised to have my legs kicked out from under me one of these times. There is no accounting for irony and randomness in any ledger.

So, Arkansas Kelly, glad to see you back here and writing here. You are a fascinating individual and I appreciate your company .... take care / stay safe / be happy / and it is never too early to get the shotgun and ammo ready for duck season .... I actually still dream about duck hunting, whatever that means ....

Simply Me said...

Well, well, Rebel-Devil, I'm surprised the "Woke" police haven't appeared to remove your video :) I do enjoy your mischief and revelry...always a mystery.
I purchased Swede Hollow from your recommendation in the last post and I'm really enjoying the book! Fantastic author and story.
So now I bid you adieu, Man Who Rows. Have a great week and I look forward to your next post!
Stay safe, stay well, and stay You!
Big Hug :)

Fram Actual said...

"Woke police" .... hmmmm .... there are three of them camped in my front yard right now, but each is paying me $5.00 a night, they are keeping the grass neat and tidy, and they are furnishing me with one hot meal a day, so it is fine with me.

Seriously, California Kelly, I am not sure whether to laugh or to cry at the thought of them. It is another example, I think, of good intentions and kind hearts run amok. The Twin Cities region really is a hotbed for them, and that is worrisome. It probably is time to find an island and seek refuge "far from the madding crowd," to liberate a thought from Thomas Hardy. Hmmmm .... that name seems to ring a bell ....

Too many hmmmms ....

You have pulled ahead of me, Original Kelly. I have not finished reading, "Swede Hollow," and I am assuming you have completed it. On the other hand, I have been to where the shanty town once was and you have not been there, I believe I can safely assume. Much of the area is now a park, and I have wandered through it searching for ghosts. Actually, trying to conjure up a few while thinking about and wondering about the people who once lived there. I feel like I know them ....

Like all metropolitan areas, a person can find new places to see and new things to do here every day of the year -- so many places to see, so little time ....

Speaking of time, it is almost time for my companion, Buddy the Wolf, and I to call it a day. Yes, I will stay me and you stay you, too .... your visits make my day complete, Kelly .... più tardi, bellissimo ....

Kelly said...

Fram, your religious background is interesting. More in depth than I thought, from earlier things you said. (though I'm not sure why I thought that) There have been two times in my life that I chose not to attend services (both for about a two-year period and both for totally different reasons), though I didn't feel distanced from God either time. I couldn't stay away, however. I needed Christian fellowship (despite being very much an introvert) and resumed regular attendance. One of the things that's been a bit difficult for me in this current situation is not being able to go to church. Worshipping online just isn't the same.

I'm afraid duck hunting is a thing of the past for me. We sold all our farmland in the delta (rice, mostly) so we have no where to hunt... unless I want to shoot the teal and wood ducks that visit our pond and that's out of the question. Same for the dove that gather under my bird feeders. I've grown too softhearted in my old age (except maybe when it comes to squirrels).

Fram Actual said...

Among the things I most enjoyed about religion were the camaraderie and the social activities. That is why Christmas and Easter are my "soft spots" in terms of attendance. Periodically, I think about "shopping for a church." There are plenty here to pick from, and I consider going to a service or two in a few looking for one which appears compatible to my views .... but, I never follow up.

One of the negative experiences I mentioned earlier was the fact that this particular pastor told me a rather significant lie when I was somewhere along the border between eight and nine. It actually stunned me. I was under the impression that clergy never, never ever told lies. It set my mind in motion and, over the next few years, I began to believe that if a pastor can lie about one thing, he might lie about anything -- maybe even lie about everything. How many of the ten commandants did this guy break and how often? Are all clergy the same way? Once planted, the seed grew until it reached the point where I wanted to quit anything and everything associated with religion. By the time I realized and accepted the fact that clergy are mere mortals, too, it no longer made any difference.

My end to hunting came rather abruptly as I watched a goose "screaming" for several minutes and literally refusing to leave its mate which had been shot by a hunter. The episode lasted at least ten minutes. I decided then and there I never wanted to inflict such pain and torment on another bird/animal. My love of firearms and shooting has never lessened, though, and I can rationalize being friends with hunters largely because they form the staunchest Second Amendment defenders. As they say, Sam Colt made all men and women equal. I really do believe that and always encourage boys/men and girls/women to become proficient with every type of firearm.

I put out food and water for birds and squirrels and assorted other critters. There also are turkeys, fox, raccoon, coyote and occasional deer who sometimes visit me. Ducks (mostly mallards) come and sit on roofs around here. There are plenty of geese year-round, too. A couple of squirrels actually crawl half-way into my pockets looking for peanuts when I sit outside and read, and a couple of blue jays will come down and take a peanut from my hand when I hold one up for them. Lots of fun and we "all" enjoy it ....

Ok. Forget hunting. The same logic about it never being too early to ready the guns and ammo applies for target shooting .... take care, Arkansas Kelly, keep your powder dry and be happy ....

Kelly said...

It's a shame that some unfortunate experiences affected you so. I can understand, though, because some in my family have either become atheists or given up on organized religion for similar reasons. I do not intend to sound judgmental when I say this, but some denominations are so exacting (and legalistic) in their beliefs that they can make folks run the opposite direction. Many of the differences between denominations are trifling, IMO, as long as the basic tenets of what it means to be a Christian are in check. And by basic tenets, I'm referring to much of what is stated in the creeds. (Nicene, Apostles') How one is baptized, how communion is taken, whether music is a part of worship... I don't see those as defining elements. Personally, I prefer liturgical worship and within that tradition, I like using the older rites from the prayer book. That said, if someone likes worshiping where snakes are handled or tongues spoken.... you won't hear any criticism from me. To each their own. Just don't tell me i'm going to hell because I don't believe "the right way". Only God can make that call.

Fram Actual said...

My only justification (using the word loosely) for "dropping out" was that my decisions were forming while I was an inexperienced boy who already had fairly strong religious convictions, e.g., lying is a sin. I probably could have (and even should have) mentioned that I learned to read before entering school through Bible stories and fairy tales (notably those of the Brothers Grimm and Hans Christian Andersen). Sometimes the two seemed to intermingle in believability, and both were very influential for me in creating a vivid imagination, while existing in a Doubting Thomas frame of mind.

The original name of the church in which I "grew up" was Silo Lutheran Church. Silo = Shiloh = place of peace, and it was a Norwegian Lutheran church. At some point along the way, it became affiliated with the ELCA and the name changed to Christ Lutheran Church.

When I mentioned "shopping around" the other day, I was thinking only in terms of Lutheran churches, and not casting a net any wider. In a religious sense, I lean toward conservatism, which (I suppose) translates into a church affiliated with either the Missouri or the Wisconsin synods. I do approve of women in all roles of life, including church-related functions such as ministerial, so that has nothing to do with it. Call me "old-fashioned" in terms of liturgy and Sunday services.

It has been a while (counted in years) since I last took notice of any religions beyond Lutheran, so I am not certain which might appeal to me and which might send me scampering for the nearest exit. As I mentioned some time ago, I did consider conversion to Catholicism for former wife No. 2, but a priest running for the door ended that process. I also doubt I really could have done it ....

I do not think I could ever fall off the cliff toward acceptance of a divinity in any form because of all the reading I have done (as Wolf Larsen said in The Sea Wolf: "My mistake was in ever opening the books.") and an inability to have absolute faith in anything or anyone (call it self-centered stubbornness) .... or become an actual atheist because of a persuasive religious upbringing as a young boy (call it love and respect for an exceptionally devout mother and grandmother).

I some ways, religion seems to me to be the most complex/pretentious part of living life we have to deal with, while on the other side of the coin it would seem to be the most elementary/uncomplicated of all the questions to which we seek solutions.

Take care, Kelly of Arkansas ....

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